Psychologist
Receiving a diagnosis of mesothelioma is, needless to say, an emotional experience. The diagnosis carries with it a greatly shortened life expectancy along with a barrage of medical tests and treatments, often including surgery, radiation and chemotherapy. A psychologist may seem like just one more unwelcome visit to the doctor. But psychologists are trained to help cancer patients understand the upheaval in their lives. Some people may feel that talking about their feelings, many of which are negative, is an admission of helplessness. In reality, the opposite is true. Cancer patients who work with a psychologist show the strength to face their future and deal with the serious issues that mesothelioma brings to any patient and his or her family.
Psychologists help patients sort through their various responses to a mesothelioma diagnosis. The six major responses experienced by mesothelioma patients are outlined here:
- Disbelief is the first response and it is profound with mesothelioma. Many people cannot believe even the fact of their exposure to asbestos from a coworker or perhaps a family member’s clothing. Psychologists work with patients to explain how this happens and to assure patients that they are not alone.
- The second response is one of pain or abandonment. This feeling is normal, and specialized psychologists can put a patient in touch with a support group to address the issue.
- Third, mesothelioma patients experience anxiety—about personal finances, business and family obligations and selecting the right treatment plan. A psychologist will work to empower the patient to seek information and then take action. A patient’s sense of helplessness may be alleviated through involvement with research and participation in the decision-making process during treatment. Having a feeling of control can reduce anxiety.
- The fourth response of most patients is one of guilt. Patients often feel they are to blame for not seeking treatment earlier. A psychologist can help patients come to understand and accept the factors that in reality caused their disease.
- The fifth common response is that of grief, which unfortunately is enhanced by the physical depression shared by nearly all cancer patients. In some cases, a psychologist can refer a patient having a particularly difficult time to a medical doctor who can prescribe medication such as anti-depressants or sleep aids.
- Anger is the sixth response. Anger can be a destructive emotion for anyone, especially a patient who needs to focus on health and well-being. Psychologists can help patients release or channel their anger in more positive and healing directions.
Even a few visits with a psychologist can help mesothelioma patients and their families to accept the disease and plan for the future, which may prove a hugely positive influence during the course of treatment.